Goals: Why Even Bother?

Sometimes the question is not "Why do I want to accomplish this goal"? Sometimes it's more like "Why shouldn't I just do whatever I feel like doing? Why do I want to bother myself with goals when I could just be relaxing instead?"

You might then ask yourself, if I forget the goal what do I miss out on? Am I ok with that? Will I have regrets one day? Which will cause me more stress - abandoning the goal or following through on it? What will my life look like next week, next month, next year if I do/don't accomplish the goal?

Sometimes when it's the desire for accomplishment that falters, it's the fear of loss that keeps you going.

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